love is responsible

When you judge another, you condemn yourself, since you, the judge, do the same things. Romans 2:1

Love is responsible and is willing to admit and correct its faults and errors up front. Love calls us to take responsibility for our partner in marriage. To love them. To honor them. To cherish them.

Pride is very resistant to responsibility, but humility and honesty before God and your spouse is crucial for a healthy relationship.

Part of taking responsibility is admitting when you've failed and asking for forgiveness. It's an act of love. God wants there to be no unresolved issues between you and your spouse.

If you're sincere, you may be surprised at the grace and strength God gives you.

The Love Dare, pp 127-128